More Than a Memoir: Why Dr. Tolulope Olabintan Wrote Memoirs of a Bonafide Daddy’s (Abba’s) Girl

What does it mean to truly know that you are loved, seen and held by God, even when life does not unfold the way you imagined?

For Dr. Tolulope Olabintan, affectionately known as Dr. O, this question is at the heart of her newly released book, Memoirs of a Bonafide Daddy’s (Abba’s) Girl.

The book is more than a collection of personal experiences. It is an invitation to discover the depth of God's love and to embrace the identity, confidence and security that come from knowing Him as a loving Father.

The Story Behind the Book

In writing this book, Dr. O draws from a journey marked by faith, questions of identity, difficult seasons and an evolving relationship with God.

Her story challenges the idea that being God's daughter means having a perfect childhood, an easy life or a journey without disappointments. Instead, it explores a deeper truth: a person can experience doubts, detours and seasons that make them feel alone, yet still discover the unwavering love and presence of a Heavenly Father.

Through personal testimony, biblical wisdom and stories of other women who have walked similar paths, Dr. O shares what it means to depend on God—not merely as a religious idea, but as a lived relationship.

At its heart, the book is a reminder that our identity does not have to be defined by our circumstances, past experiences or the opinions of others. We can learn to see ourselves through the eyes of the Father who loves us.

Why “Abba’s Girl”?

The word Abba is an Aramaic expression for Father, used in Scripture to communicate an intimate relationship with God.

To be an Abba's girl is to live with the assurance that you belong to a Father who sees you, loves you and does not abandon you.

That is the message Dr. O hopes readers will encounter through these pages. The book speaks particularly to women who have questioned whether God truly sees them, whether they are loved, or whether they can trust Him with the parts of their lives they find difficult to understand.

It is a call to move beyond simply knowing about God's love and begin living from the assurance of it.

A Personal Story with a Message for Every Woman

As a physician, wife, mother, speaker and co-founder of LivingSpring Family Medical Center, Dr. O's work often centres on helping people live fuller, healthier lives—physically, emotionally and spiritually.

With this book, she brings another dimension of that passion to the page.

Memoirs of a Bonafide Daddy’s (Abba’s) Girl encourages readers to reflect on their relationship with God, reconsider the stories they tell themselves about their identity and cultivate a deeper dependence on Him.

Whether you are navigating a difficult season, rebuilding your confidence, exploring your faith or simply longing for a closer relationship with God, this book offers an opportunity to pause, reflect and be reminded that you are not alone.

Get Your Copy

Memoirs of a Bonafide Daddy’s (Abba’s) Girl by Dr. Tolulope Olabintan, MD is now available on Amazon.

If you have ever wondered whether God truly sees you, this book carries a beautiful reminder: He does. And He has been waiting for you to come home.

Get your copy on Amazon here:

https://a.co/d/06dSh5Kt

Or via this website: https://memoirsofabbasgirl.com

Read it, reflect on it, and perhaps share a copy with a woman who needs this reminder today.